There is a certain poise we need to adopt, a certain attitude we need to exhibit. Our poise must be one of humility. Anger inflates our pride and when pride is inflated then God must deflate us. If we poise for peace & humble ourselves then God will lift us because He cares about us. In a race, the way you position yourself can be the difference between winning or loosing.  Uncontrolled anger will position us for destruction. Humility positions us for success.  (1 Peter 5:6)